Come take a journey with me through the dark of the year. We begin at Samhain and end before the Spring Equinox.

It’s a journey exploring the ancestral mothers, the ones who keened and lamented, the ones who led the souls of the dead home to the otherworld. Even i the lands which make up the UK there has been many cutures with widly varying views on death, ancestral veneration and views of the otherworld. We don’t know all the answers to these stories but we can lean in listen to stories, explore them in our mind and art.

The Bone Mothers

We have mnay ancestors - some our blood ancestors, those whose names we know and some we lived with - then there’s our bone ancestors the ones so distant we barely know where they came from and no nothing of their daily lives. Then there is our animal kin plants and nature and our adopted lines, for me that is doll making and keening.

Gather in community on Zoom for 6 sessions - weaving in threads of interest:

  • The Ancestral Mothers - stories of the Ancestral Mothers of Scotland from the Cailleach, She Who Runs with the Herd, to the Goddess Brighid.

  • Rooting Grief - small practices to ground grief and ritual excercise prompt

  • Create a grief poppet doll

  • Keening Women inspiration - While a lot of our inspiration is from the Bone Mothers, the pre-Christian roots of keening, we will also listen to some of the very last keening songs to be sung and recorded

Rooting Grief - A grief tending practice.

Reclaiming grief isn’t just about keening circles, it’s a the active practice of rooting grief, a grief tending practice allowing us to normalise grief and grief conversations, an essential part of life, which our ancestors fully understood.

The dark of the year was a time where our ancestors spent time by the fire, telling stories, engaging in ritual, music and dance. By communing ogether (even over Zoom) we can relight the spark of these ancient ones, letting their inspiration into our lives, in our grief tending practices.


1. Ancestral Bones

  • We honour our ancestors - from our blood kin, our bone mothers, our animal and nature kin and our adopted linages.

  • Stories - The Cailleach’s ritual of bringing the land into winter

  • Houses for the dead

  • Listening to ancient laments


2. Stones of the Shrine

  • Shrine of the Cailleach & women who tended to the stones

  • Listening to one of the last keening songs

  • Mini pilgrimage - collecting materials for the poppet doll

  • Ritual - Remebering that we too are nature


3. December Reindeer bones

  • Stories of She Who Runs with the Herd (the clan who followed the herds of reindeer)

  • Rebirth of the sun

  • Houses for the dead


4. Wolf Bones

  • The Cailleach and the wolf

  • Differing belief systems in the UK throughout history

  • Keening circle to honour species loss


5. February

  • Welcoming Brighid back into into the world

  • Brighid as bringing keening to the world

  • Carrying hope

  • Keening as activism

  • Shawl ritual


6. Bear Bones

Spring equinox - bear emerges from hibernation